What To Do If You Took Your Ex for Granted

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In this video, dating strategist Dating Guy outlines what to do if you took your ex for granted.

Not every break up is as simple as the dumper losing attraction for you or choosing to end the relationship for personal reasons. Sometimes you are to blame for the break up. If you want to get your ex back, Dating Guy explains what to do here.

If your ex tells you the reason they are breaking up with you is because you neglected them or took them for granted, then going no contact right away is not the best move.

You need to give them some space, but also apologize for your behavior, empathize with them, make no excuses and tell them what you want to change if they give you another chance.

The reason for this is that if you do not do anything but go no contact, then your ex will feel you are displaying the same problems from within the relationship again. That you have not changed and therefore will not want to get back together.

But if you apologize and offer to change before going no contact, then the reason for the break up is no longer that you are taking the relationship for granted. Now it is that your ex does not want to try again or is being stubborn. By then going no contact, when they grieve the loss of relationship they have only themselves to blame for the pain of the break up.

The reason Dating Guy tells you to contact them like this is that the break up may be a test to see if you are willing to change, and by not changing you are letting them slip away. It is one of the rare times you can break no contact.

If you want to get back together, then you need to understand the biggest reasons exes come back. Every situation is different but this video will help you know what to do in this specific situation.

But Dating Guy makes it very clear that most people did not take their ex for granted. It is a rare case that this happens. He does not advise that everyone suddenly starts contacting their ex to apologize and offer change. Most break ups are due to other reasons and staying no contact is the best advice to win back your ex the right way.

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