You’ll also learn: While most women with a feminine essence must invoke their own masculine in order to lead in their careers and families, they feel fear, anxiety, and exhaustion when it comes to leading their relationship.
The primary emotion, as described by John’s teacher David Deida, is the body’s first response in a moment.
It is important for a feminine partner to practice getting in touch with the primary emotion as it moves through your body because the primary emotion is the compass for the feminine. For the masculine, it is the “weather report.” It is the way for the masculine partner to know your heart’s deepest truth.
Artfully revealing the moment-by-moment primary emotion through your body has the capacity to evoke leadership from your masculine partner. You can do this by expressing the primary emotion with an open heart and very few words.
Your partner may not take the lead right away, especially if you have been habitually taking the lead in your relationship over time, so you may need to keep expressing the primary emotion to him until he does. For example, expressing anxiety that he is not in the lead, and then frustration when he doesn’t take the lead after you initially express your anxiety, etc.
Once your partner takes the lead, reveal your joy, gratitude and delight with as much energy as your frustration, anxiety and exhaustion. He will learn through your heart how important this is for you.
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